This isn’t where either of you imagined you’d end up, but here you are. Maybe you’re the one who discovered the affair and now trying to make sense of the betrayal, the heartbreak, and the loss of safety. Or maybe you’re the one who had the affair and carrying the weight of guilt, shame, and a desperate desire to repair what’s been broken.

 

At Elra Wellness Group, we understand that both partners are in pain, and that true healing only happens when both are supported. Our Love Re-Paired program helps couples rebuild emotional safety, work through the trauma of infidelity, and create a relationship rooted not in the past, but in what’s possible moving forward. This journey won’t be easy but it can be transformative. With guidance grounded in trauma-informed care, we walk with you through every step of recovery. You’re not just repairing love. You’re re-pairing your lives, together.

 

What Makes Love Re-Paired Unique? 

At the moment of affair discovery, both partners endure profound trauma that’s too often overlooked. The betrayed partner experiences shock, grief, and a shattering of core trust, while the involved partner navigates intense shame, guilt, and a fractured sense of self. Love Re-Paired uniquely recognizes and addresses this dual trauma and we begin by stabilizing each partner’s emotional safety, then guide both through tailored, trauma-informed interventions so that healing happens side by side rather than in isolation.

Treatment is not one-size-fits all so our trauma-informed approach integrates the following frameworks:

• Gottman Institute Methods: Evidenced-based structured exercises to improve communication, rebuild friendship, and manage conflict in real time.

• Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT): Deepens emotional bonds by identifying and reshaping insecure attachment patterns.

• Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT): Challenges unhelpful beliefs (e.g., self-blame, catastrophizing) and promotes healthier thought patterns.

• Narrative Therapy: Helps each partner re-author the story of “what happened,” moving from blame to shared meaning.

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If you a couple experiencing infidelity and are ready to move beyond the pain of the betrayal and rebuild your relationship on a foundation of trust, compassion, and mutual growth then, this program is for you. Book a free consultation here.